{"id":1504,"date":"2024-07-18T10:35:09","date_gmt":"2024-07-18T14:35:09","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/sites.smith.edu\/bdpcblackoutproject\/?p=1504"},"modified":"2024-07-18T10:42:09","modified_gmt":"2024-07-18T14:42:09","slug":"you-are-a-guest","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sites.smith.edu\/bdpcblackoutproject\/you-are-a-guest\/","title":{"rendered":"You Are a Guest"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"688\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/sites.smith.edu\/bdpcblackoutproject\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/1055\/2024\/07\/you-are-a-guest-688x1024.jpg\" alt=\"The image shows a collage-style composition based on a vintage etiquette book page. It features text with some sections blacked out in blue, interspersed with various illustrations and photos. These include a landscape with a teepee, a butterfly, a woman in vintage clothing, an old carriage, and a table lamp. Vintage postage stamps and a decorative feather image are also incorporated. The overall effect is a layered, mixed-media artwork combining text and visual elements from different eras.\" class=\"wp-image-1505\" style=\"width:570px;height:auto\" srcset=\"https:\/\/sites.smith.edu\/bdpcblackoutproject\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/1055\/2024\/07\/you-are-a-guest-688x1024.jpg 688w, https:\/\/sites.smith.edu\/bdpcblackoutproject\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/1055\/2024\/07\/you-are-a-guest-202x300.jpg 202w, https:\/\/sites.smith.edu\/bdpcblackoutproject\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/1055\/2024\/07\/you-are-a-guest-768x1143.jpg 768w, https:\/\/sites.smith.edu\/bdpcblackoutproject\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/1055\/2024\/07\/you-are-a-guest-1032x1536.jpg 1032w, https:\/\/sites.smith.edu\/bdpcblackoutproject\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/1055\/2024\/07\/you-are-a-guest-1376x2048.jpg 1376w, https:\/\/sites.smith.edu\/bdpcblackoutproject\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/1055\/2024\/07\/you-are-a-guest-940x1399.jpg 940w, https:\/\/sites.smith.edu\/bdpcblackoutproject\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/1055\/2024\/07\/you-are-a-guest-400x595.jpg 400w, https:\/\/sites.smith.edu\/bdpcblackoutproject\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/1055\/2024\/07\/you-are-a-guest-scaled.jpg 1720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 688px) 100vw, 688px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>By <\/strong><em><strong>E<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>You Are a Guest<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>YOU ARE A GUEST<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>when going out on the street, to put<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>on a hat<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>perhaps a coat and gloves,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>when going to a dinner party to wear a dinner or<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>evening dress.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>never for an instant think of putting on a becoming<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>frame of mind.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>it is far more important to put<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>headache or a worry out of view than to wear a new dress.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>TAKING A HOUSE GUEST TO A PARTY<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>When an unexpected house guest arrives<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>it is quite<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>right for a hostess to telephone to ask if she may bring him to a <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>lunch or dinner at a large house, or to an afternoon party<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>it is much better when the party is a sit-<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>down one at a house of limited size<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If that is too many of us,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>would it be better for Henry and me not to come either?&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&#8220;Oh, no, I have plenty of <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>him.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>AND PLEASE KEEP YOUR GERMS TO YOURSELF<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I thought I&#8217;d never be able<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>to get into my clothes I had such a chill (snuffle, sniffle, cough, cough).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>My temperature is over 103. I really ought to have a medal for bravery! <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I did not think it fair to give up.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&#8220;Oh, my<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>dear, I&#8217;m so sorry! You ought to go straight back to bed.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&#8220;How <em>could<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>you be so thoughtless of others as to come here and breathe flu germs <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>on everybody!&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Therefore, although there is a fixed rule which makes it very dis-<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>courteous to break a dinner engagement, this rule is canceled when there<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p> is any danger of scattering infectious air-borne germs.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Far more considerate to stay quarantined in one&#8217;s room unless nose <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>and mouth are both covered with a protecting mask of gauze. Feeling<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>utterly miserable themselves, they should try to keep others from feel-<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>ing likewise- you&#8217;d think!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The business angle of this subject is unhappily not so easily solved.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A clerk or stenographer or saleswoman or even a school teacher cannot<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>By E You Are a Guest YOU ARE A GUEST when going out on the street, to put on a hat perhaps a coat and gloves, when going to a dinner party to wear a dinner or evening dress. never for an instant think of putting on a becoming frame of mind. it is far&#46;&#46;&#46;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":7535,"featured_media":1505,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[8],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1504","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-postemily"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/sites.smith.edu\/bdpcblackoutproject\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1504","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/sites.smith.edu\/bdpcblackoutproject\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/sites.smith.edu\/bdpcblackoutproject\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sites.smith.edu\/bdpcblackoutproject\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/7535"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sites.smith.edu\/bdpcblackoutproject\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1504"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/sites.smith.edu\/bdpcblackoutproject\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1504\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1506,"href":"https:\/\/sites.smith.edu\/bdpcblackoutproject\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1504\/revisions\/1506"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sites.smith.edu\/bdpcblackoutproject\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/1505"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/sites.smith.edu\/bdpcblackoutproject\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1504"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sites.smith.edu\/bdpcblackoutproject\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1504"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sites.smith.edu\/bdpcblackoutproject\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1504"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}