{"id":48,"date":"2022-04-04T11:36:16","date_gmt":"2022-04-04T15:36:16","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/sites.smith.edu\/doctorsnotes\/?p=48"},"modified":"2022-04-29T14:32:55","modified_gmt":"2022-04-29T18:32:55","slug":"letter-from-w-e-b-du-bois-to-yolande-du-bois-october-29-1914","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sites.smith.edu\/doctorsnotes\/letter-from-w-e-b-du-bois-to-yolande-du-bois-october-29-1914\/","title":{"rendered":"To Yolande Du Bois, October 29, 1914"},"content":{"rendered":"<audio class=\"wp-audio-shortcode\" id=\"audio-48-1\" preload=\"none\" style=\"width: 100%;\" controls=\"controls\"><source type=\"audio\/wav\" src=\"https:\/\/sites.smith.edu\/doctorsnotes\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/795\/2022\/04\/bright-sparkles-4_21_22-4.09-PM.wav?_=1\" \/><a href=\"https:\/\/sites.smith.edu\/doctorsnotes\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/795\/2022\/04\/bright-sparkles-4_21_22-4.09-PM.wav\">https:\/\/sites.smith.edu\/doctorsnotes\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/795\/2022\/04\/bright-sparkles-4_21_22-4.09-PM.wav<\/a><\/audio>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_142\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-142\" style=\"width: 440px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"https:\/\/sites.smith.edu\/doctorsnotes\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/795\/2022\/04\/07BrightSparkles.gif\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-142 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/sites.smith.edu\/doctorsnotes\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/795\/2022\/04\/07BrightSparkles.gif\" alt=\"sheet music for bright sparkles\" width=\"440\" height=\"234\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-142\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">&#8220;Bright Sparkles in the Churchyard&#8221;<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p style=\"text-align: center\"><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Oh, mother, don&#8217;t you love your darling child,<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center\"><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Oh, rock me in the cra-dle all the day. <\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">(Sundquist, 508-09)<\/span><\/p>\n<div class=\"h5p-iframe-wrapper\"><iframe id=\"h5p-iframe-15\" class=\"h5p-iframe\" data-content-id=\"15\" style=\"height:1px\" src=\"about:blank\" frameBorder=\"0\" scrolling=\"no\" title=\"To Yolande 1\"><\/iframe><\/div>\n<div class=\"h5p-iframe-wrapper\"><iframe id=\"h5p-iframe-16\" class=\"h5p-iframe\" data-content-id=\"16\" style=\"height:1px\" src=\"about:blank\" frameBorder=\"0\" scrolling=\"no\" title=\"To Yolande 2\"><\/iframe><\/div>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>Transcript:<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">October 29, 1914.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Dear Little Daughter:\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">I have waited for you to get well settled before writing. By this time I hope some of the strangeness has worn off and that my little girl is working hard and regularly.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Of course, everything is new and unusual. You miss the newness and smartness of America. Gradually, however, you are going to sense the beauty of the old world: its calm and eternity and you will grow to love it.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Above all remember, dear, that you have a great opportunity. You are in one of the world\u2019s best schools, in one of the world\u2019s greatest modern empires. Millions of boys and girls all over this world would give almost anything they possess to be where you are. You are there by no desert or merit of yours, but only by lucky chance.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Deserve it, then. Study, do your work. Be honest, frank and fearless and get some grasp of the real values of life. You will meet, of course, curious little annoyances. People will wonder at your dear brown and the sweet crinkley hair. But that simply is of no importance and will be soon forgotten. Remember that most folk laugh at anything unusual whether it is beautiful, fine or not. You, however must not laugh at yourself. You must know that brown is as pretty as white or prettier and crinkley hair as straight even though it is harder to comb. The main thing is the YOU beneath the clothes and skin \u2013 the ability to do, the will to conquer, the determination to understand and know this great, wonderful, curious world. Don\u2019t shrink from new experiences and custom. Take the cold bath bravely. Enter into the spirit of your big bed-room. Enjoy what is and not pine for what is not. Read some good, heavy, serious books just for discipline: Take yourself in hand and master yourself. Make yourself do unpleasant things, so as to gain the upper hand of your soul.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Above all remember: your father loves you and believes in you and expects you to be a wonderful woman.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">I shall write each week and expect a weekly letter from you.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Lovingly yours,<\/span><\/p>\n<p>[no signature]<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Miss Yolande DuBois.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><i>Du Bois, W. E. B. (William Edward Burghardt), 1868-1963. Letter from W. E. B. Du Bois to Yolande Du Bois, October 29, 1914. W. E. B. Du Bois Papers (MS 312). Special Collections and University Archives, University of Massachusetts Amherst Libraries. https:\/\/credo.library.umass.edu\/view\/full\/mums312-b007-i220.\u00a0<\/i><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp; Oh, mother, don&#8217;t you love your darling child, Oh, rock me in the cra-dle all the day. (Sundquist, 508-09) &nbsp; Transcript: October 29, 1914.\u00a0 Dear Little Daughter:\u00a0 I have waited for you to get well settled before writing. 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