<div class="multiwho">by <a href="https://sites.smith.edu/religious-spiritual-life/author/mcantwelsmith-edu/" title="Posts by Matilda Cantwell" class="author url fn" rel="author">Matilda Cantwell</a></div><div class="multiwho">by <a href="https://sites.smith.edu/religious-spiritual-life/author/mcantwelsmith-edu/" title="Posts by Matilda Cantwell" class="author url fn" rel="author">Matilda Cantwell</a></div>{"id":1648,"date":"2019-03-04T16:48:01","date_gmt":"2019-03-04T21:48:01","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/sites.smith.edu\/religious-spiritual-life\/?p=1648"},"modified":"2019-03-06T11:07:03","modified_gmt":"2019-03-06T16:07:03","slug":"reflect-resist-rejuvenate","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sites.smith.edu\/religious-spiritual-life\/2019\/03\/04\/reflect-resist-rejuvenate\/","title":{"rendered":"Reflect, Resist, Rejuvenate"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Dear Friends,<\/span><\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_1341\" style=\"width: 310px\" class=\"wp-caption alignright\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-1341\" class=\"wp-image-1341 size-medium\" src=\"https:\/\/sites.smith.edu\/religious-spiritual-life\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/126\/2018\/03\/Matilda_Cantwell_49-1-e1522181869395-300x200.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"200\" srcset=\"https:\/\/sites.smith.edu\/religious-spiritual-life\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/126\/2018\/03\/Matilda_Cantwell_49-1-e1522181869395-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/sites.smith.edu\/religious-spiritual-life\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/126\/2018\/03\/Matilda_Cantwell_49-1-e1522181869395-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/sites.smith.edu\/religious-spiritual-life\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/126\/2018\/03\/Matilda_Cantwell_49-1-e1522181869395-1024x682.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/sites.smith.edu\/religious-spiritual-life\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/126\/2018\/03\/Matilda_Cantwell_49-1-e1522181869395.jpg 1499w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><p id=\"caption-attachment-1341\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Center for Religious and Spiritual Life Director, Matilda Rose Cantwell<\/p><\/div>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">We chose to highlight as our theme \u201cReflect, Resist, Rejuvenate\u201d this year because we think these are the three ingredients we all need to live in the present historical moment, and, as general practices of the spiritual life. Or, to use a different metaphor, I suggest these three things as a pattern of movements in a \u201cdance,\u201d each piece drawing upon and giving rise to the other. \u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Reflect<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Research by the Narratives Project (https:\/\/www.smith.edu\/student-life\/narratives-project) at Smith shows that those of us who cultivate \u201chabits of reflection\u201d have a more robust vision of where they are going in life. <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">That doesn\u2019t mean we need to know our future plans<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">&#8212;<\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">seniors, I am talking to you. <\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">It means rather that we have a deeper self-understanding that helps us to identify our purpose or vocation in the world. \u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">We all have some ways of reflecting. And yes\u2014it\u2019s true, excessive time with our screens can deplete our reflective energy and distract us from what is going on within. The reflective process is where we discover truths about ourselves, and thus it is how we discover truth itself, a commodity that we urgently need in this time of fake news. Thus the 20 minutes a day you spend walking alone, the half an hour a week you spend journaling, the religious service you attend, the dialogue group in which you participate, are all more important activities than you might think.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Resist<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Resistance takes many forms. Political, social, internal. \u00a0We encourage you to consider resisting labels&#8211; you do this when you identify with more than one religion, gender, or any other category. You do this when you say out loud that you <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">don\u2019t know yet,<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400\"> and that you are, like all of us, on a journey. Many of of us feel called to be part of the \u201cresistance\u201d to a world with increasingly nationalistic mentalities, a county that is hostile to the most vulnerable; or to climate change and its reverberations everywhere. Even political resistance happens in many different ways, and if you are not part of a movement, that does not mean you are not practicing resistance. The difference between resistance and social action, by itself, is that resistance can be like a spiritual, psychological boycott. Sometimes we need to boycott our own fear, to respond with honesty and dignity to macroaggressions&#8211;by holding our heads high, and taking a long, quiet deep breath\u2014for sometimes the best response is no response at all. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">One of the reasons we have lawn signs at the Helen Hills Hills Chapel that say \u201cBlack Lives Matter\u201d and \u201cNo matter where you are from, we\u2019re glad you\u2019re our neighbor,\u201d is in order to communicate that we are resisting any assumption that those who work in a building like ours, that looks like a protestant church, will stand by in complicity with injustice. For example, we resist the rejection of immigrants in need, the ban on U.S. entry based on religion, and the killing of black people by law enforcement.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Rejuvenate<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">To encounter truth, we must <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">reflect.<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400\"> To make change, we need to <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">resist. <\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">To sustain ourselves, we need to <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">rejuvenate.<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400\"> Rejuvenation is not quite the same as relaxation. We relax, and we need to, through a wide variety of activities&#8211;watching Netflix, sitting around talking with friends, reading, taking a walk. But rejuvenation means to <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">make new, re-fresh, return to a state of fullness and energy.<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400\"> Often when we are relaxing, sinking deep into rest\u2014we are eventually faced with decisions\u2014at what point does this begin to drain rather than rejuvenate me\u2014should I really watch the fourth episode of this show, or should I turn out the light and go to sleep? In college it can be hard to deeply rejuvenate, as we rush from class to activity to homework. However, it helps to remember we can\u2019t be at our best if we don\u2019t stop to rest\u2014and sometimes we have to rejuvenate intentionally\u2014by writing , dancing, doing yoga, talking with a friend who brings mutual insight and clarity. When we are depressed or anxious or struggling with an addiction or illness, rejuvenation can be hard to come by.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">I think that is where \u201csurrender\u201d comes in, and whatever we believe, we lean into the notion, that somehow we are not entirely alone in this universe, nor can we do everything alone. We cannot <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">think <\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">our way into being rejuvenated. By the same token nor can we expect this practice or that church service or that yoga class or that lecture will give us everything we need. Ultimately, what we need for deep rejuvenation is inside us. But we often need a grounding,<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400\">sometimes embodied activity to help bring it to the surface. We need water, light to rejuvenate what is already there.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">We hope that each of our programs at the Center for Religious and Spiritual Life engage at least one of these critical pieces of being a human being, a person in 2019, and a student at Smith. Most importantly, remember that if you are curious about deepening your spiritual life; learning mindfulness practices; interacting with others with respect to moral and ethical questions or religious difference; participating in social justice work and community engagement; and practicing reflection; we invite you not to hesitate to find us. \u00a0For you, that might be an act of resistance\u2014to your own doubts or fears or preconceptions. Or, to return to the metaphor, we invite you to \u201ccome dance with us!\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">With warmth,<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400\"><br \/>\n<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400\"><br \/>\n<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">The Reverend Matilda Rose Cantwell<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400\"><br \/>\n<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Director of Religious and Spiritual Life, College Chaplain<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400\"><br \/>\n<\/span><a href=\"mailto:mcantwel@smith.edu\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">mcantwel@smith.edu<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Dear Friends, We chose to highlight as our theme \u201cReflect, Resist, Rejuvenate\u201d this year because we think these are the three ingredients we all need to live in the present historical moment, and, as general practices of the spiritual life. &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/sites.smith.edu\/religious-spiritual-life\/2019\/03\/04\/reflect-resist-rejuvenate\/\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":775,"featured_media":1341,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[227],"tags":[240,228,93,257,184,236,213],"coauthors":[266],"class_list":["post-1648","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-student-posts","tag-community","tag-crsl-news","tag-identity","tag-mindfulness","tag-spirituality","tag-stress-relaxation","tag-worship"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/sites.smith.edu\/religious-spiritual-life\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1648","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/sites.smith.edu\/religious-spiritual-life\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/sites.smith.edu\/religious-spiritual-life\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sites.smith.edu\/religious-spiritual-life\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/775"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sites.smith.edu\/religious-spiritual-life\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1648"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/sites.smith.edu\/religious-spiritual-life\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1648\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1656,"href":"https:\/\/sites.smith.edu\/religious-spiritual-life\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1648\/revisions\/1656"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sites.smith.edu\/religious-spiritual-life\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/1341"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/sites.smith.edu\/religious-spiritual-life\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1648"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sites.smith.edu\/religious-spiritual-life\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1648"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sites.smith.edu\/religious-spiritual-life\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1648"},{"taxonomy":"author","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sites.smith.edu\/religious-spiritual-life\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/coauthors?post=1648"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}