<div class="multiwho">by <a href="https://sites.smith.edu/religious-spiritual-life/author/yolandi-cruz-15/" title="Posts by Yolandi Cruz &#039;15" class="author url fn" rel="author">Yolandi Cruz &#039;15</a></div><div class="multiwho">by <a href="https://sites.smith.edu/religious-spiritual-life/author/yolandi-cruz-15/" title="Posts by Yolandi Cruz &#039;15" class="author url fn" rel="author">Yolandi Cruz &#039;15</a></div>{"id":45,"date":"2013-12-10T18:15:19","date_gmt":"2013-12-10T23:15:19","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/smithinterfaithmatters.wordpress.com\/?p=45"},"modified":"2018-05-21T12:09:24","modified_gmt":"2018-05-21T16:09:24","slug":"my-black-friends-laugh","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sites.smith.edu\/religious-spiritual-life\/2013\/12\/10\/my-black-friends-laugh\/","title":{"rendered":"My Black Friends Laugh When I Tell Them I&#8217;m Black<br \/>30 Poems In November"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I\u2019m\u00a0black!<br \/>\n&#8230;\u00a0your\u00a0skin\u00a0is\u00a0light<\/p>\n<p>but\u00a0I\u2019m\u00a0black!<br \/>\n&#8230;\u00a0well\u00a0your\u00a0hair\u00a0is\u00a0too\u00a0curly<\/p>\n<p>but\u00a0I\u00a0grew\u00a0up\u00a0around\u00a0all\u00a0black people<br \/>\n&#8230;\u00a0yeah\u00a0but\u00a0you\u00a0got\u00a0mad Spanish\u00a0cousins and\u00a0y\u2019alls accent\u00a0gets\u00a0too\u00a0thick<\/p>\n<p>when\u00a0y\u2019all\u00a0talk\u00a0fast<br \/>\n<span style=\"line-height: 1.7\">Anyways\u00a0what\u00a0chu know\u00a0about being\u00a0black?\u00a0What chu\u00a0know about\u00a0slavery<br \/>\n<\/span>Your\u00a0people\u00a0didn\u2019t\u00a0go\u00a0through Jim Crow or\u00a0the\u00a0middle passage<br \/>\nMartin\u00a0Luther\u00a0King\u00a0wasn\u2019t your\u00a0king.\u00a0Rosa\u00a0Parks\u00a0did not\u00a0sit\u00a0for\u00a0you.<\/p>\n<p>So\u00a0what\u00a0chu\u00a0know\u00a0about being\u00a0black?<br \/>\nYou\u00a0don\u2019t even\u00a0smoke\u00a0weed!<br \/>\nOr\u00a0perm\u00a0your\u00a0hair<br \/>\nWhen\u2019s\u00a0the last\u00a0time\u00a0you\u00a0got\u00a0a\u00a0weave?<br \/>\nIf\u00a0you\u00a0can\u00a0still\u00a0get\u00a0tan\u00a0in the summer then\u00a0you\u00a0ain\u2019t realllllyyyyy\u00a0black<br \/>\nYou\u00a0said\u00a0you\u00a0put\u00a0<i>sofrito\u00a0<\/i>in your\u00a0ramen&#8230; 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includes student-penned poems for the purpose of raising money (and awareness) about <a href=\"http:\/\/www.cnam.org\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">The Center For New Americans<\/a>.\u00a0This literacy center provide immigrants (as well as refugees) with the resources needed for them to learn how to read in English.<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I\u2019m\u00a0black! &#8230;\u00a0your\u00a0skin\u00a0is\u00a0light but\u00a0I\u2019m\u00a0black! &#8230;\u00a0well\u00a0your\u00a0hair\u00a0is\u00a0too\u00a0curly but\u00a0I\u00a0grew\u00a0up\u00a0around\u00a0all\u00a0black people &#8230;\u00a0yeah\u00a0but\u00a0you\u00a0got\u00a0mad Spanish\u00a0cousins and\u00a0y\u2019alls accent\u00a0gets\u00a0too\u00a0thick when\u00a0y\u2019all\u00a0talk\u00a0fast Anyways\u00a0what\u00a0chu know\u00a0about being\u00a0black?\u00a0What chu\u00a0know about\u00a0slavery Your\u00a0people\u00a0didn\u2019t\u00a0go\u00a0through Jim Crow or\u00a0the\u00a0middle passage Martin\u00a0Luther\u00a0King\u00a0wasn\u2019t your\u00a0king.\u00a0Rosa\u00a0Parks\u00a0did not\u00a0sit\u00a0for\u00a0you. So\u00a0what\u00a0chu\u00a0know\u00a0about being\u00a0black? You\u00a0don\u2019t even\u00a0smoke\u00a0weed! Or\u00a0perm\u00a0your\u00a0hair When\u2019s\u00a0the last\u00a0time\u00a0you\u00a0got\u00a0a\u00a0weave? If\u00a0you\u00a0can\u00a0still\u00a0get\u00a0tan\u00a0in the summer then\u00a0you\u00a0ain\u2019t realllllyyyyy\u00a0black You\u00a0said\u00a0you\u00a0put\u00a0sofrito\u00a0in your\u00a0ramen&#8230; Man\u00a0you\u00a0ain\u2019t black! &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/sites.smith.edu\/religious-spiritual-life\/2013\/12\/10\/my-black-friends-laugh\/\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":810,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[237,227],"tags":[93,146,230],"coauthors":[309],"class_list":["post-45","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-interfaith-matters","category-student-posts","tag-identity","tag-poetry","tag-race-racism"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/sites.smith.edu\/religious-spiritual-life\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/45","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/sites.smith.edu\/religious-spiritual-life\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/sites.smith.edu\/religious-spiritual-life\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sites.smith.edu\/religious-spiritual-life\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/810"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sites.smith.edu\/religious-spiritual-life\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=45"}],"version-history":[{"count":5,"href":"https:\/\/sites.smith.edu\/religious-spiritual-life\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/45\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1519,"href":"https:\/\/sites.smith.edu\/religious-spiritual-life\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/45\/revisions\/1519"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/sites.smith.edu\/religious-spiritual-life\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=45"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sites.smith.edu\/religious-spiritual-life\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=45"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sites.smith.edu\/religious-spiritual-life\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=45"},{"taxonomy":"author","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sites.smith.edu\/religious-spiritual-life\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/coauthors?post=45"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}