{"id":4878,"date":"2018-06-12T18:50:00","date_gmt":"2018-06-12T18:50:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/sites.smith.edu\/ssw100-history\/out-of-nest-1962-copy\/"},"modified":"2018-07-20T15:11:38","modified_gmt":"2018-07-20T15:11:38","slug":"nourish-magnolia-1979","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sites.smith.edu\/ssw100-history\/nourish-magnolia-1979\/","title":{"rendered":"Marian Schneider, &#8220;Nourish Your Magnolia,&#8221; 1979"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>[et_pb_section bb_built=&#8221;1&#8243; admin_label=&#8221;section&#8221; background_color=&#8221;rgba(0,62,81,0.55)&#8221; parallax_method=&#8221;off&#8221; next_background_color=&#8221;#ffffff&#8221; custom_padding_tablet=&#8221;50px|0|50px|0&#8243; custom_padding_last_edited=&#8221;on|desktop&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;3.2.2&#8243; background_image=&#8221;https:\/\/sites.smith.edu\/ssw100-history\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/256\/2018\/06\/magnolia.jpg&#8221; background_blend=&#8221;overlay&#8221; background_position=&#8221;top_left&#8221; module_class=&#8221;blue&#8221;][et_pb_row admin_label=&#8221;row&#8221; background_position=&#8221;top_left&#8221; background_repeat=&#8221;repeat&#8221; background_size=&#8221;initial&#8221;][et_pb_column type=&#8221;1_3&#8243;][\/et_pb_column][et_pb_column type=&#8221;2_3&#8243;][et_pb_divider color=&#8221;#ffffff&#8221; show_divider=&#8221;off&#8221; height=&#8221;200&#8243; divider_style=&#8221;solid&#8221; divider_position=&#8221;top&#8221; hide_on_mobile=&#8221;on&#8221; disabled_on=&#8221;on|on|off&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;3.2.2&#8243; \/][et_pb_post_title _builder_version=&#8221;3.2.2&#8243; meta=&#8221;off&#8221; featured_image=&#8221;off&#8221; text_color=&#8221;light&#8221; title_font_size=&#8221;50px&#8221; title_line_height=&#8221;1.2em&#8221; \/][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][\/et_pb_section][et_pb_section bb_built=&#8221;1&#8243; specialty=&#8221;off&#8221; parallax_method=&#8221;off&#8221; prev_background_color=&#8221;rgba(0,62,81,0.55)&#8221; custom_padding_tablet=&#8221;50px|0|50px|0&#8243; custom_padding_last_edited=&#8221;on|desktop&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;3.2.2&#8243;][et_pb_row admin_label=&#8221;row&#8221; make_fullwidth=&#8221;off&#8221; use_custom_width=&#8221;off&#8221; width_unit=&#8221;on&#8221; use_custom_gutter=&#8221;off&#8221; custom_padding=&#8221;0px|||&#8221; padding_mobile=&#8221;on&#8221; allow_player_pause=&#8221;off&#8221; parallax=&#8221;off&#8221; parallax_method=&#8221;off&#8221; make_equal=&#8221;off&#8221; parallax_1=&#8221;off&#8221; parallax_method_1=&#8221;off&#8221; parallax_2=&#8221;off&#8221; parallax_method_2=&#8221;off&#8221; column_padding_mobile=&#8221;on&#8221; background_position=&#8221;top_left&#8221; background_repeat=&#8221;repeat&#8221; background_size=&#8221;initial&#8221;][et_pb_column type=&#8221;1_3&#8243;][et_pb_post_title admin_label=&#8221;Categories&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;3.2.2&#8243; title=&#8221;off&#8221; author=&#8221;off&#8221; date=&#8221;off&#8221; comments=&#8221;off&#8221; featured_image=&#8221;off&#8221; meta_text_color=&#8221;#6fbee5&#8243; \/][et_pb_code admin_label=&#8221;Tags&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;3.2.2&#8243;][tags][\/et_pb_code][\/et_pb_column][et_pb_column type=&#8221;2_3&#8243;][et_pb_text _builder_version=&#8221;3.2.2&#8243; text_font_size=&#8221;20&#8243;]<\/p>\n<p>In this 1979 essay, Marian Schneider, M.S.S. 1960, reflects on divorce from the perspective of a marriage and family therapist and someone who has been divorced for a long time.<\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_text max_width=&#8221;620px&#8221; text_font_size=&#8221;20&#8243; text_text_color=&#8221;#363636&#8243; use_border_color=&#8221;off&#8221; custom_margin=&#8221;10px||0px|&#8221; text_line_height=&#8221;1.4em&#8221; text_font_size_last_edited=&#8221;on|desktop&#8221; background_position=&#8221;top_left&#8221; background_repeat=&#8221;repeat&#8221; background_size=&#8221;initial&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;3.2.2&#8243;]<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>During that long period of mending,\u00a0I developed a secret refrain to myself. It helped me through December\u2019s longest night, and through the many moments of exquisite sadness as I learned slowly to say \u201cI\u201d instead of \u201cwe.\u201d &#8230;\u00a0REMEMBER THE MAGNOLIA! REMEMBER THE MAGNOLIA!<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>[\/et_pb_text][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][et_pb_row make_fullwidth=&#8221;off&#8221; use_custom_width=&#8221;off&#8221; width_unit=&#8221;on&#8221; use_custom_gutter=&#8221;off&#8221; custom_padding=&#8221;50px|||&#8221; padding_mobile=&#8221;on&#8221; allow_player_pause=&#8221;off&#8221; parallax=&#8221;off&#8221; parallax_method=&#8221;off&#8221; make_equal=&#8221;off&#8221; parallax_1=&#8221;off&#8221; parallax_method_1=&#8221;off&#8221; column_padding_mobile=&#8221;on&#8221; custom_padding_tablet=&#8221;17px|||&#8221; custom_padding_last_edited=&#8221;on|tablet&#8221; background_position=&#8221;top_left&#8221; background_repeat=&#8221;repeat&#8221; background_size=&#8221;initial&#8221;][et_pb_column type=&#8221;1_4&#8243;][et_pb_text _builder_version=&#8221;3.2.2&#8243;]<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_4882\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-4882\" style=\"width: 1024px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-large wp-image-4882\" src=\"https:\/\/sites.smith.edu\/ssw100-history\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/256\/2018\/06\/magnolia-1024x829.jpg\" alt=\"color photograph of magnolia blossoms\" width=\"1024\" height=\"829\" srcset=\"https:\/\/sites.smith.edu\/ssw100-history\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/256\/2018\/06\/magnolia-1024x829.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/sites.smith.edu\/ssw100-history\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/256\/2018\/06\/magnolia-300x243.jpg 300w, https:\/\/sites.smith.edu\/ssw100-history\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/256\/2018\/06\/magnolia-768x622.jpg 768w, https:\/\/sites.smith.edu\/ssw100-history\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/256\/2018\/06\/magnolia-1080x875.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/sites.smith.edu\/ssw100-history\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/256\/2018\/06\/magnolia.jpg 1440w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-4882\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Magnolia, Photographer: Lauren Anderson, Spring 2018, Northampton, MA.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>[\/et_pb_text][\/et_pb_column][et_pb_column type=&#8221;3_4&#8243;][et_pb_text admin_label=&#8221;pdf&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;3.2.2&#8243;]<\/p>\n\n<p>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_text admin_label=&#8221;Caption&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;3.2.2&#8243; module_class=&#8221;caption&#8221; saved_tabs=&#8221;all&#8221;]<\/p>\n<p>Marian Schneider, M.S.S. 1960, \u201cNourish Your Magnolia\u201d <em>Smith Alumnae Quarterly<\/em>, February 1979, p 22-23.<\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_text][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][\/et_pb_section]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>In this 1979 essay, Marian Schneider, M.S.S. 1960, reflects on divorce from the perspective of a marriage and family therapist and someone who has been divorced for a long time.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1545,"featured_media":4882,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[99],"tags":[35,67,107,43,120],"class_list":["post-4878","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-newsletters","tag-1970s","tag-alumni","tag-clinical-social-work","tag-gender","tag-work-life-balance","entry"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/sites.smith.edu\/ssw100-history\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/256\/2018\/06\/magnolia.jpg","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/sites.smith.edu\/ssw100-history\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4878","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/sites.smith.edu\/ssw100-history\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/sites.smith.edu\/ssw100-history\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sites.smith.edu\/ssw100-history\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1545"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sites.smith.edu\/ssw100-history\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=4878"}],"version-history":[{"count":7,"href":"https:\/\/sites.smith.edu\/ssw100-history\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4878\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":5354,"href":"https:\/\/sites.smith.edu\/ssw100-history\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4878\/revisions\/5354"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sites.smith.edu\/ssw100-history\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/4882"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/sites.smith.edu\/ssw100-history\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=4878"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sites.smith.edu\/ssw100-history\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=4878"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sites.smith.edu\/ssw100-history\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=4878"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}