I have been surrounded by stereotypes throughout my life, with regard to my ethnicity, along with the area in which I grew up. To me, a stereotype is a generalized message designed to classify individuals. The fear of the unknown establishes stereotypes; those with intolerant mindsets walk through society with trepidation, for fear of discovering something radically different from that which they are accustomed to. I am mixed: my mother is Indian, and my father is American of Irish descent. As a child, I was constantly exposed to Indian culture, but was raised in a primarily white, affluent part of the country. I was different from my peers, and yet, surrounded by them. Therefore, my manner of speaking is resultantly influenced by my childhood. Because of this, I’ve often been told that I “talk white” which, quite frankly, doesn’t mean anything. The way that I look differs from the way in which I present myself, and because of this, I am often stereotyped. To many, I am neither white nor brown, leaving me in a rather peculiar position in various social situations. My friendships are multicultural; I have relationships with many different types of people. However, I often develop an identity crisis of sorts, depending on the situation, and on the people with whom I am speaking.
That being said, there are multiple stereotypes about Americans, more so than the classic, hamburger-eating football fans. America is economically diverse. My high school was perceived to be “preppy and rich” by many outsiders, a stereotype which has followed me to college, although this was not the case. Certain communities and parts of America are quite modest and are often stereotyped in an insulting way. When I travel abroad, I constantly find myself somewhat ashamed of my American heritage. I know I shouldn’t feel this way. I try to assimilate as much as I can when I travel abroad, for fear of sticking out like a sore thumb. The stereotypes attached to Americans follow us wherever we go; however, I am now learning that one shouldn’t be insulted by them, but instead, should dispel the stereotype in question, and educate others, much like an individual from a different culture might educate us about their own ways of life.
I also really liked how self reflective and thoughtful your post was! It’s so true that people can have a different ‘identity crisis’ depending on the situation and people you are with, and finding solid ground in those moments can be very challenging! I also really relate to your point about how the way in which you carry yourself when you’re abroad can be heavily influenced by how you’ve been stereotyped in the past, and I think you make a great point in saying we should try to focus on educating others and dispelling these stereotypes rather than internalizing them!
Thank you so much for sharing your experience, Leela! I found your comment about “hamburger-eating football fans” especially enjoyable since that’s not a way I would have thought to phrase that specific stereotype, and maybe it’s just because I’m from a part of the country where it definitely holds up, but the accuracy is, personally, almost unbearable. I also really liked the way you closed your piece, because it’s a very hopeful, inspiring message.